Friday, April 15, 2011

Why do people not like guys with long hair?

Just kinda bothered by this topic WHICH i have many first hand experience with countless of times.
Guys with long hair (or medium-length) always get talked about, and sometimes shunned.

Like wtf?

Why do people always associate guys with long hairs to gangsterism, no manners, looking messy, a dropout or worse an ingrate. We havent even utter a word and you label us because our hair are 10cm or  longer then the average man.

We can still do work like any other people and just because our hair moves more when the wind blows, you hate us?


I think its about time that we should get some justice from you judgemental people.

Pic to proof that my hair is not of an average joe's length (actually jus the sideburns only)


WHY YOU SO ANAL?!
Sometimes i reallly cannot take it, people criticize, despise... forget it. But to stereotype?
 Who do you think you are?


I have had short part time jobs in the science, service, food and sales industry 
and they only accepted me reluctantly.
I know that being neat with crew cut hair is the best, but it doesnt show my personality.
Common lor, if all the guys do that, wouldnt that be extremely boring?


&& why dont u mock girls for cutting their long tresses?
IF girls can have short hair, why cant guys can have longer hair? Sexist idiots.




Thus i think these are the few reason why some people do not like guys with long hair.








1. Your hair is better than theirs


Damaged 



VERSUS


SILKY SMOOTH 



Well they always say that 'The grass is greener on the other side.'
So 'The hair is always silkier/shinier on the other scalp.'

AGREED?




These applies to those people who had a shitty colour/dried like straw hair and is envious of your nice hair.
Because they are too lost for words that a like guy you can actually have such nice-smelling(abit kua zhang), long & conditioned hair that they go all personal and verbal attack you with threats. 



Well i guess it sucks to be them to have shitty hair. 
Go get some treatment or some good hair mask la, criticizing people's hair will not magically repair you hair right? TSK.







2. They cannot grow until that length




They are apparently jealous of your length! 
If not comment so much, disturb you and force you to cut your hair for what?
This condition normally applies to ladies with screwed short hair cut or guys with short hair.
Because they are jealous of your length that they cannot humane-ly reach or sustain so they kajiao u. 


So they make mean comments like your hair is like shit (maybe theirs are like diarrhoea? since L.S is always worse than B.S) , you look like a girl/tranny , your hair is ugly and blahblah blah. 

So guys, if their hair is much shorter than yours and they make such mean sarcastic comments. 
Just dramatically flick your hair and walk away LOOOOL! If that is too dramatic for you , you just turn your head to the right/left (any direction) violently to whack them with your hair. 

They will know that they have lost, heh heh.









3.They just have nothing to do




Since they stereotype so many kinds of people im not surprised if they ran out of ' types ' to gossip about.
It just unlucky of us to have longer hair length than them so they make a topic out of it. 


My hair is attached to MY scalp, how is it of any inconvenience to other people?


As an average human drops 40-120 strands of hair daily ,i think i will only burden the cleaners  that have to sweep the floor. SO other than them no other people are allowed to insult as they are not in any way inconvenienced.



4. We are better looking than them

Due to many countries influence, more guys are having medium- long hair length.
So im not surprised if longer hair suits different faces. 

Different hair length hides/cover flaws and boost your facial features what. 
So as they are the plain-TOMs on the streets they ought to put you down to their level so that everyone look like plain TOMS-es.


What kind of world are you living in if everybody has the same hairstyle,hair colour and face.
That is why we longer hair guys differentiate ourselves from this mundane mainstream looking kinda guys.






Well im not trying to say that all guys should start growing their hair to hip length now && saying that long hair suits everyone. Im just trying to say that some people in this world should just stop being so judgemental. 

Short hair is good for different people too & short hair guys do not get criticized for cutting their hair short right?




Thus, theres always the longer hair guys getting targetted and being ridiculed at.
E.g if you dont like my hair, so be it. 

Its not like the hairstyle will determine my EQ OR IQ right?
Must you be so critical to pinpoint my every mistake and make it seem like im a total loser 
(WHICH IM PRETTY SURE IM NOT!)




&& although i talk so much about this, i might still need to cut my hair to a shorter length for my attachment.):
Because i study biotechnology in which no lab researchers have nice long hair & im no exception to start being one.
Well that is in 5 months time, so i will cherish the moments i will have with my long hair :3


Picture credits to google ! (:


Signing Off,
Kazuewhoisproudtobeaguywithlongerhair

8 comments:

Ken Wooi said...

if i didnt read properly, i would have thought that you're a girl from that photo.. :)

but i dont mind guys like long hair.. as long not messy..

Kazue (Shun An) said...

Er hahah lol.
Well, its good than you dont stereotype (:

Jz said...

Actually we have to understand that, first image or impression is important. Partly contributed by all the gangsters / lalakia / or idiotic teens with long hair, people view things that way. Just like how we normally assume "fat people can eat a lot", when it's not always right.

let me ask you a question, if you were a boss from an ordinary company (not salon or model company etc) and you have 2 interviewees, 1 with short tidy and black hair, 1 with long and gold-dyed hair. Which one would give you better impression?

Which is the reason why I gave up my mind on long hair and dyed it back to black >.>

Anonymous said...

But you cannot deny that some guys really look like shit with long hair.

Kazue (Shun An) said...

jz - I get what you mean. But im just sick and tired of the fact that people stereotype and verdict that you are incapable because you do not have hair that is of normal length. Despite all this rantings, i know that i still have to eventually cut it and dye it to a normal colour. The time is not up though hahhaa.


Anon- Well i wont deny the fact dat some guys may look ugly with long hair. BUT hey! Some guys look ugly with short hair too. But do they get insulted , criticized or stereotyped for their uglyness? No, i mean its not just about looks, just a normal long hair guy can infuriate people. But.. he hasnt even done anything yet. And its always different thinking for a guy with long hair and a guy with short hair. You know why? Its because his hair is longer.

Blackswan said...

U look great with the stylish hair. I don't care if u're a guy or gal as long as u look good :) Thks for the nang & I've done the same :)

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Kazue (Shun An) said...

Blackswan- Thanks for the compliment and you are welcome (:

Anonymous said...

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